The Guilt Trip

23 Sep

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Arguments happen at all times with the girl you’re involved with; they’reunavoidable. But if it involves the edge of breakingup, you’ll want to know if you’re dating a ruthless woman who’s all aboutthe guilt trip.It usually happens if you end up arguing and also you take a look at her andsay, “I really have no idea if we’re going to work out” or “I don’t knowif we will fulfill each other’s needs.” A ruthless woman will respond in thefollowing way whenever: “IT’S NOT THAT I AM going to allow you to do that to me.”

Are you falling for it?

You must understand exactly what she is communicating to you when she says this. Sheis basically putting the guilt trip on you to stick with her. Why? Because she is ruthless.A ruthless woman couldn’t care less what you simply said to her. A ruthless womanhasn’t even listened to what you simply said. You’ve basically told her that you really want to finish therelationship one of the best ways possible, but she goes down theI-am-not-going-to-let-you-do-this-to-me road. She is making an attempt to guilt youinto staying within the relationship. She’s going to make you think, “WHAT’S GOING TO happen if I break upwith her? Is she going to feel awful? Is she going to harm herself? Is she going to commitpsychological suicide?”

What she gets out of it

A ruthless woman tends to either be with a person who doesn’t really desire her on a deeplevel or a person who she won’t allow herself to divulge heart’s contents to on a deep level. Shechooses these relationships because she likes to consistently create drama in her life.She enjoys it, feeds off of it — she actually gets off sexually at the drama. It turnsher directly to keep her relationship on this dramatic mode 24/7.Ruthless women tendto have lowself-esteem. They get satisfaction from manipulating the person they’re withbecause they understand they’ve the facility to control a person. Odds are good they grewup watching their mother do it to their father. They watch people manipulate people,and they use the similar manipulative tactics to guilt you into staying within the relationship.“If you allow me, I’M REALLY NOT going to be alright. Should you leave me, Idon’t know what I’LL do.” Ruthless women are so needy and so dependent thatthey can’t bear to be alone. But they do not satisfy you in ways you ought to be satisfied.If they did, they would not be coming at you ways they are. More onhow to get past the guilt trip, next… Continue Reading

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Posted by on September 23, 2011 in Magazine


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