Living With Unemployment

14 Sep

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This week, Doc Love, author of “The System,” advises areader who’s in a relationship while living with unemployment.

Reader’s Question

Hey Doc,I’ve always done very well with women within the short term. I USED TO BE married once, but it surely fizzled and sheleft me for an additional man. Since then, I’ve been facing women like crazy. Most of them are physically gorgeous but don’t delay inthe Integrity or Honesty department. Here’s my current situation: Ilost my job a couple of months ago, and now I’m without unemployment benefits. I’vehad some temp jobs, but I can’t find anything in my salary range. Why do I mentionthis? Because I met my current love, Sandra, while unemployed. We datedcasually for a couple of weeks. Then she was alleged to go and notice her on-and-off boyfriend,but she abandoned the plan and asked me to be exclusive together with her instead. Since then, shehas spent her time with me. I have strong feelings for this one, Doc. The reasonI’m so compelled to be together with her is because she dates me youngsters thatI’m unemployed.That I DON’T have an income and am at the brink oflosing everything seems to intend absolutely nothing to her. This shows extreme moral fibre,and the pathetic women I’ve dated prior to now can’t compare to her. Thereason I’m writing is because I haven’t been in a position to spoon-feed myself, andI’m fearful of destroying Challenge just because Sandra knows I’m not employed and amwithout money. For instance, I can’t tell her I’m going out somewhere withouther because she knows I’m broke. Because I don’t have money to take Sandraout, she makes accommodations and/or has paid for me. Our time was spent just walkingon the beach, watching movies or having an easy dinner at home. I’m an effortless man,and this relationship is what I’ve always wanted. But, like I said before, I THINK asif I’D be making huge mistakes by not having the ability to take this relationship slowenough. Sandra gives and offers and gives, and that i rarely have toreturn. Probably the most I’ve done for her is to drive to her house, that is about 15 milesaway. I also taken care of once when she was sick — and that’s about it. She’sdone way more for me. Doc, do you think that I’m doomed? Sandraencourages me to maintain on the lookout for work and never surrender. She compliments me and tells meI’m special, despite the fact that I BELIEVE like a lowlife. She sees something in me I sometimesfail to look in myself on account of my job situation. But isn’t itgoing too fast? Do these types of things work out? Rich – whocan’t believe his luck Should Rich end his relationshipwhile he’s living with unemployment? Doc Love advises… Continue Reading

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Posted by on September 14, 2011 in Magazine


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